I saw "What's Love Got to Do with It" while sitting at work. Whoever have seen it, knows where I am coming from and where I am going to go...Few years back when I saw this movie, its impact was totally different. Today it was something else!
What love got to do with it? Nothing!!! It has nothing to do with it, love is a sacred feeling and it becomes too much for someone at times. Sometimes, it is just a hidden feeling inside!
On the other hand, Love is nothing but insecurity, and the emotional dependency, specially when you grow old with someone special in your life and/or when you get emotionally raised with one specific one. You tend to become emotionally dependent on him/her in these circumstances. This is another shade of love...
I did the same thing, she did the same thing. Love, yes this is why it was hard to leave him and when I left, it was hard to come out of it, emotionally and mentally. Now when I look back, I feel good about myself that I took the first step. Those times made me feel ashamed of myself for long time. Its not that I wasn't aware of truth around me, when I was there, I knew what was happening to me and I knew it was wrong, but it was hard to even accept it to yourself, forget accepting to others.
I hope someone doesn't live this as her destiny anymore. I hope that I am there for someone and I can help her come out of this emotional crap and mental trauma. I want to do this, I am passionate about it and I am sure I can do it - I will do it.
Amen!!!
VJ
P.S. Need to add more...will do so later, right now..these impulsive thoughts only.
Tags Desires, Expression
Very interesting read. Liked the assertiveness that the entire write-up possessed.
Anonymous said...
Monday, February 2, 2009 at 11:24:00 PM PST
good post!!!
I can do it - I will do it.
sure you will all the best.
sandeep mishra said...
Tuesday, February 3, 2009 at 2:13:00 AM PST
:-)) Positivity and kuch kar guzarne ka dam hi to hai ab!!!
Shadows of life said...
Wednesday, February 4, 2009 at 1:10:00 AM PST
Now when I look back, I feel good about myself that I took the first step.
To take this first step is the difficult one ...rest everything will be wonderfull
God Bless !!!
Anonymous said...
Saturday, February 7, 2009 at 3:13:00 AM PST
V,
There are times I've felt the need to share my loving self . However not finding a recipient I guess the next best option I opted for was to care and love a pet dog in the transitory phase. It sounds quirky but then it does work , a loving dog returning my affection has served me well.
Anonymous said...
Wednesday, February 11, 2009 at 10:20:00 PM PST